I loved Shrek 2, mostly because the parents weren't one dimensional villains. And because I laughed heartily all the way through.
I saw the message much the same way you did, but a friend of mine had a very different take on it. He saw it as a parable of gay love, ie, what happens if you try to bring your gay lover home to the folks and they realize that you're not the person they thought you were, and the loss of all those hopes and dreams.
I hadn't seen it that way myself, but I thought it was an interesting perspective.
What do you think?

That's funny, I saw it as a parable of interracial love. Especially when the king said "So, I suppose any grandchildren I might have would be...?" and Shrek responds "OGRES!"

I liked the movie, but my 4.75-yr old didn't laugh once the first time she saw it. And afterward she asked me "What was that movie *about*?"

Yes, we've seen it twice. After seeing it once I really wanted to see it again with my sister, who I felt sure would point out all the pop culture referenced I had missed.

I'm inclined toward Rebeca's take. It's Guess Who's Coming to Dinner, only instead of being black, he's green. And very large. The gay thing doesn't work for me bec. it's not about the parents changing toward their daughter even though she's now Ogreish. It's just Shrek they have a problem with.

I agree about the parents, Darby. I liked that Mom was a voice of calm reason and I loved the ending with the dad, though it made me wonder about certain bedroom logistics in the future.

I'm going with the interracial marriage insinuations. But, always one for the reconcillatory ending, I kept wondering when the mother would KISS the frog and turn him back into her husband!?! Didn't happen! - and then if we're talking "bedroom issues" did anyone else have just a little problem with the thoughts of relations between donkey and the dragon? I guess the kids didn't and that is all that mattered.